We'd love to know you're coming, or, if you can't, that you're suitably devastated. Either way, please let us know by the 15th of July.
Received, thank you. We've got your reply. If anything changes, drop us a message directly.
Hengrave Hall is tucked into the Suffolk countryside, roughly two hours from London and well worth the journey. The nearest station is Bury St Edmunds; we recommend driving or sharing a taxi from there.
We have availability for accommodation on site for everyone. If you'd like to stay with us, please send £156 per room (not per person) by 30th August to:
If you're unable to stay on site with us, please let us know as soon as possible so we can plan around it. If you have any concerns about accommodation, get in touch.
Hotels within roughly six miles of Hengrave Hall. Prices are indicative for the night of 10 December 2026, please check the booking site for live availability and current rates.
| Hotel | Distance | From | Book |
|---|---|---|---|
| All Saints Resort 4-star country resort with spa, indoor pool and golf course, Hengrave's sister property. | 1.5 mi 4 min drive |
£130–£160typical | Book |
| Fornham Hall B&B Boutique country B&B in 2-acre grounds. Small, may be easier to book by phone. | 2 mi 5 min drive |
£110–£140typical | Book |
| Best Western Priory Hotel Grade II-listed hotel behind old priory walls, with gardens. Mid-range. | 3.5 mi 8 min drive |
£75–£110typical | Book |
| Premier Inn (Bury North, A14) Modern budget chain near the train station. Reliable and comfortable. | 3.7 mi 9 min drive |
£55–£75typical | Book |
| Travelodge Bury St Edmunds No-frills budget chain, walking distance into town. | 4 mi 10 min drive |
£40–£65typical | Book |
| The Angel Hotel Historic 15th-century 4-star boutique opposite the Abbey Gardens, the town's landmark. | 4 mi 10 min drive |
£160–£220typical | Book |
| Premier Inn (Town Centre) Central budget chain, walkable to restaurants and the cathedral. | 4 mi 10 min drive |
£60–£85typical | Book |
| The Northgate Nine-room boutique townhouse hotel just off the historic centre. | 4 mi 10 min drive |
£140–£190typical | Book |
| The Cadogan Arms, Ingham Upscale country pub-with-rooms above an AA 2-rosette restaurant. | 5 mi 11 min drive |
£120–£175typical | Book |
| Bedford Lodge Hotel & Spa 4-star country-house hotel & spa in Newmarket, a premium option slightly further afield. | 10 mi 20 min drive |
£165–£210typical | Book |
The dress code is black tie, tuxedos and dinner jackets for the gentlemen, evening attire for the femmes.
We're getting married in a candlelit 16th century manor house in December, so if in doubt: deep colours, gowns, satins and velvets will fit the setting.
If we were to steer you away from a particular style, we'd suggest staying away from bright florals and tropical prints, you might feel a bit out of place in a dark, moody winter setting.
We don't need to tell you this, but just in case you're not very good at knowing what temperature it is outside (looking at the brother of the bride), remember to bring a jacket, it's mid winter.
Most importantly, wear what makes you feel comfortable and makes you feel luxurious.
These are a guide, not a rule. If in doubt: would it look good by candlelight?
Your presence is a gift enough! But if you won't take no for an answer, you can contribute to our honeymoon fund, which will go towards an indecently long trip that we'll tell you all about afterwards.
Do check back here occasionally in the months leading up to the wedding. We'll use this space as a little message board in case we need to pass on any updates from the venue or otherwise.
Have a question for my mum & dad? Give me a treat and I'll pass on a message.
